‘grats! Marriage is hard work and definitely takes a lot of adjustment (at first but also periodically through the entire marriage), but it’s most definitely worth it. I’m over 16 years past my wedding day, and my wife is by far the best friend that I have or have ever had.
If God’s brought you to this point (which it sounds like He has), He won’t let you down now. Hang in there and trust Him for job, finances, and such. His plan might not match where you think you’re headed, but His way will be better.